HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!

WHOOOOOOOOO!!!! OUT WITH THE OLD IN WITH THE NEW

I would hope that everyone reflects on their performance in 2008 and
attempts improvement in 2009. 2009 will be an awesome year!

Wishing you all the best,
Leiomi Nala
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Family Guy- Tyra

This was dumb funny, I am chillin out watchin tv and bloggin ...ahh my to passions all at once so romantic >_>. Nah but that was a pretty accurate up until the whole iguana thingy lmaooo:





Until next time watch tv lolz

Talk to you soon!!!

Sonny Bunnae

Sonny Bunnae is mi kitty cat. He is a beautiful orange cat. The best ever, he has the coolest personality in de world. So calm so cuddly so cool. He is laid back, independent and just awesome. I could not have dreamed up a cooler kitty. So big ups to my Sonny Bunnae !!!! I love youuuu Sonny!!!

Talk to you soon!!!

Hilarious Cartoon

American Dad is a hilarious cartoon. Although not as well known as Family guy it definitely deserves its props.



Talk to you soon!!!

Politics

Politics have been revolutionized. This is awesome the glass ceiling for women has been lifted and it has been proven that any and everyone in America can accomplish their goals. This is awesome, however, will this new political craze lead to more people running for political positions. By extension could this also lead to candidates who are not qualified, running for political positions???? Doe sit even matter any way since regardless to who runs for a position the public has an opportunity to vote for the candidate that they believe will do the best job???

Talk to you soon :/

Dinner at Cheeburger :)

I just had dinner at Cheeburger Cheeburger in Dat city dat never sleeps lolz. It was delicimos :). I had a very very lovely evening. The food was spectacular and the milk shakes were even better. I had a chocolate shake with a semi-serious cheese burger, topped with cheddar cheese and onion. Great graet stuff i love that plae and i recommend it to all.

Until next time ...Cheeburger!!!

Talk to you soon!!!

Not About Gifts

Certainly there is a commercial aspect to the the Christmas season, however, that should not be the most important part of the Holidays. Presents are nice and can be given as a token of affection, to underscore the most important message. I guess the most important would be spending time with those important and close to us such as family and friends. Presents are okay because they demonstrate that someone took the time to get you something that you would like which is always cool.

Just remember that Holidays are to remind us of how great our family friends and downtime are :)

Talk to you Soon!!

Merry Christams!!!

MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!!! I hope that everyone enjoys their Holiday!!

Talk to you soon!!!

McDonald's Commercial

LMAOOO this Mcdonald's commercial is dum funny. My favorite part is when she looks back before she walks in the door. ROFLL that sneaky back glance,(0:23) is hilarious!!!!! But you don't have to take my word for it:



lolz

Talk to you soon!!!

Funniest Video on Youtube!!!

"Mih bress titties ...Mi Ack-tual bress titties were smaller dan me tummeh"
LMFAOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!! this video never gets old. Definitely one of if not the funniest video on youtube. I love the voice that say "shut up let the man talk!!" This is soo original so hilarious!! Keep makin it hot LIL PITO !!!!!!!!!!!!!! rofll



Talk to you soon!!! :)

MySpace Fakes!!!

Hellooooo out there in reader land!!!, How is everyonee????? Welll now This friday yet another unfortunate soul had to step into my office!! The name of this unfortunate fellow is Nicole, better known as FAKE ASS COLE from a High School in New York. So I found out via, the Leiominala hotline that this fellow/STUD?...>_> from Forest Hills High School named cole was definietly in a relationship with another young lady when she decided to cyber stalk one of her clsssmates. Not only did cole search through everryyy single myspace profile that matched the search criteria for 17 year old male in NY, but after she found the gentlemen that she was looking for she then created a fake myspace with a picture of another gentlemen and hit up her victim. Who even knows who this poor guy who was being imitated was, but I am guessing that she randomly found his picture on myspace and used it for her own weirdo purposes. So then after Nicole makes the fake page with fake friends, and fake comments, she then creates a fake sn and THEN as if this was not enough she contacts the gentle man that she stalked and searched for all over myspace to set up a convo.

So she hits up the dude as if she was the other dude and begins speaking with him. The guy she had search for suspected all along that she was a fake but entertained her anyways. So the momemnt of truth comes when Nicole desparetly asks for the 400 millionth time "ARE YOU STRAIGHT???" ... first of all who even says r u str8 anymore, second of all she is supposedly a proud lesbian IN A RELATIONSHIP!!!!>:O

So the guy immediately recognized this question because she had asked him this in school before in the same weird lingo so he immediatley called her out and was like "U's a FAKE!!!" and Nicole responds with just a "Dam,Dam,Dam" but what I really want to know is why Nicole is concerned with this young man's sexuality, isn't she already in a loving relationship?? >_> or maybe she isn't Maybe Nicole isn't a proud stud after all, maybe Nicole needs some discostick!!!!!! Maybe Nicole is secretly in love with this young man from Forest Hills.

SHE'S DEFINITELY IN LOVE WITH THIS YOUNG MAN FROM FOREST HILLS. Why else would she spend hours online searching for his myspace, creating a fake myspace and sn and going through his whole stupidness to ask the same questions that she been had asked.

WOW thanks Nicole for making an ass of your self and proing to be a cyber stalker!!! It was tons of fun putting your FAKE ASS ON BLAST!! GOOD JOB!!!

Until next time keep it real DON'T be FAKE LIKE NICOLE FROM FOREST HILLS!!

Talk To You Soon!!!

Ne-yo -Miss Independent

Ne-yo has done an AWESOME job with the song Miss Independent. This song is great just as a musical piece, but it also has an extraordinary message. It is so fly that a guy is performing a song about derisring a successful woman in charge. Generally speaking uplifting songs about succesful women are scarce. The few that do exist are performed by women. It is really awesome to see such a catchy and just banging song writen and performed by a guy.



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Leyomi Mizrahi

Leyomi Miza .. Miza.. Mizrahi is the BOMB!!!! Leyomi is a young underground ballroom sensation. Her dance moves are totally amazing and have revolutionized ballroom dancing forever. Leyomi has made history with her dips and signature cocky walk. I could only dream of duck walking like Leyomi. U GO! Leyomi omi omi !!!

Yupp simply put Leyomi iz dat OVAH B*tch!!! .. But you don't have to take my word for it. Check out the video below :)




Talk to you Soon!!!!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! JESSE!!!!!!!

BIG UPPSS TO MY HOMIEE JESSE NADIR!!!

HAVE AN AWESOME, GREAT ESPIALLADOCIOUS BIRTHDAY!!!!!!

U DA BOMB!!!
GO U !!! GO !!!!

WHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!! *DOES CHEER*

HAPPY BIRTHDAY

TALK TO YOU SOON!!!

Cali oh so Ambitious!!!

Cali from Real Chance at Love is an extremely ambitious young lady. While claiming to genuinely be interested in finding love, it seems that she is actually interested in finding fame.

Cali from Real Chance at Love is extremely well connceted coincidentally with many industry peeps. Cali says she is a makeup artists and is interested in a career doing special effects make up. That sounds awesome. Cali was confronted by Chance on the show becuase he had also heard rumores that she was linked to and friends with many famous people already. I also saw her on Parental Control which is an MTV show in which parents get to choose dates for their teenager in hopes that they will leave their current love interest. Cali said on Parental Control that she was a makeup artist. So it is clear that Cali is interested in career as a makeup artist, what is not clear is, whether that is all she is interested in.

Hmmmm, sooo we have Cali who has been seen on two reality TV shows, who knows how many she actually applied to. >_> Yeaaaa Sounds like Cali is at best looking to be a very FAMOUS makeup artist *giggles*

Oh well I don't blame her!!! DO yo THANG Cali!!!

Talk to you Soon!!!

Zimbabwe.... Whats Going On???

So has anyone heard about what is going on in Zimbabwe. It seems ridiculous that such atrocities could go on for more than one business day. Apparently sewage lines were ruptured in a major city and the seweage leaked into the streets, a hostel and is also polluting a local river that is a main source of water supply to Zimbabwe. With the river polluted there is a massive outbreak of cholera. In addition to this moive plot of a tragedy the collapsing economy has prompted doctors, nurses and teachers to go on strike until they recieve a pay increase. On top of this there is also a failing economy that is forcing many people to scavenge for wild fruits, and edible roots for survival. It is rumored that this cholera outbreak is occuring in regions where there was strong support for a political party in opposition of Mugabe.

This is unreal, there are reports of power outages, death from cholera is spreading. Many clinics and hospitals have run out of medication, and have been forced to close becuase of a shortage of staff. Many ill patients are being asked to leave the hospitals and have no where else to go. I found this news and the picture above at:

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/africa/7771184.stm

Check it out get educated this is happening in Zimbabwe today tommorrow it could be you!!!!

Talk to you Soon!!!

Britney's For the Record

OMG I never thought that I would se ethe day when I could say that I like Britney Spears. I might even go to her concert. Britney's for the Record was an awesome move for her career and comeback. It was absolutely necessary for Britney to set things straight. I was one of those people who only knew what they saw in Tabloids about her. Obviously based on those images I jumped on the bandwagon os *smh @ Britney* But after seeing her documentary I like her so much. She is a real person with real feelings and problems. Before seeing the documentary I thought she was some irresponsible celebrity and horrible MOM. After seeing the documentary I realized that she was just like any other mother who got caught in a situation. She was bad mouthed and her name wa sdragge dthrough the mudd. I think Britney is soo awesome and I even like her music now. GO BRITNEYYY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! UR LIKE A RING LEADER U CALL THE SHOTS~~~~!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Talk to you SOON!!!!

Scream Queens AGGGGHHHHH!!

SO this show has captured my attention no matter how cheesy the scenes they have to do. Soo now they are in the top three and Tanedra is bugging out. LMaoooo Tanedra is soo funny I like her a lot. Her heart is in this competition more than anyone else. i would have to say that that is her one of her strengths but at the same time it is one of her biggest weaknesses. I was dying when she did the karate kick and fell, ROFLLLL who does that??? Lmaoo aww poor Tanedra she has madd natural talent, but she does tend to over react and have her emotions lead her. I hope she gets it together I would like to see her win. All of the top three are talented and stand an equal chance at winning. GOOD LUCK!!!!! and great show

Talk to you Soon!!!!!

Paris Hilton's My New BFF

Okay wow I am soo excited that Brittanny is Paris' new bff. She was the best fit out of all the contestants. I am pretty sure that Paris new that Brittany was going to beher BFf since they went to Japan. The other girl Vanessa was indeed a little weird. I do belive that she really did like Paris but she was definitely more of a "Yes" woman and a fan to Paris instead of a best friend. She was really sweet but she seemed to be watching Paris in admiration rather than spending QT with her. Brittany ROCKS!!!!!! Good for her I hope that she and Paris get along well and live happily ever after.

Talk to you Soon!!!!!!!

BET = Just a litle less WACK!!

So previously I had put BET on Blast for having wack and mostly syndicated shows. *clears throat* I am happy to announce that BET has done a little better by adding reality TV show Kiesha Cole's the way it is and also adding Brothers to Brutha. Awesome start!! I just hope that BET would keep bringine NEW ideas to the screen!! But kudos BET!! U've done well^_^

Until next time Talh To you soon !!! :)

Change We Can Believe In

WHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!

Barack Obama = President

So long the campaign trail
So many buttons
So many voters
So sweet the victory :)

Jesse Jackson Cries During Obama's Speech

As the camera roved over the crowd at Grant Park last night, Jesse Jackson was spotted crying. At first glance one may think that he was overcome with joy and that this is what caused the civil rights activist to tear. However, there are other reasons worth exploring that may explain Jesse Jackson's emotional display. While it is entirely possible and very likely that Jesse Jackson was at least partly happy about Obama's victory, perhaps Jesse Jackson was forced to cope with the idea that race did not play as large a role in his failed attempt at presidency a few years earlier. Jesse Jackson is well known for his struggle against racism and discrimination. Whenever anything goes down that can be narrowly blamed on racism Jesse Jackson is the first on the scene to preach about the injustice.

Naturally when Jesse Jackson ran for president unsuccessfully TWICE!!, he blamed his short coming on racism, and America not being ready for a Black president. Now that Obama has won presidency Jesse Jackson may have to accept the possibility that race was not the only reason why he did not win the presidency when he attempted it. Last night in Grant Park Jesse Jackson may have been coping with the idea that he just may not have been qualified for the position as Chief in Command/ president of the United States.

That is a lot to take in especially for the man who has been dubbed by many the "Emperor of Black people" - *or maybe just South Park*. Maybe Jesse Jackson thought that he should have been the first Black President and if he couldn't then no one should. *shrugs shoulders* Or maybe not, ... just me thinking out loud.

Jesse Jackson was also BUSTED!! making negative comments about Barack Obama, and then later reiterated his support. WHOOPS!!! ITS TOO LATE NOW WE ALREADY KNOW HOW YOU REALLY FEEL!!! Now that Obama has removed that glass ceiling Jesse Jackson's days of preaching about racial injustice may be over or at least coming to an end. Now that Obama is president what will Jesse Jackson complain about?? If Jesse Jackson cannot complain what will he do?? I guess Jesse will have to find a hobby. :)

Ultimately no one knows what Jesse Jackson was feeling accept for Jesse Jackson, all I can do is examine the possibilities. :)

Talk to you soon!!!!!

Don't Forget to Vote!!

Election Day is soo important especially in these uncertain times. Your
vote counts. You decide your future. Get down to those polls and Vote!
:)

Vote!!!

If you have not voted yet please get out there and vote you have just
under 5 hours to let your voice be heard. Get it done! VOTE!

Election Day

Its finally here. I voted today and I felt:
Great
Strong
Proud
Intelligent
Focused
Successful
Active
Intuned.....
I felt like an AMERICAN! *pokes chest out proudly*

Economic Ripples

The economy is an extremely important part of life. The economy does not only affect money and what we can buy but it ultimately affects everything else in our lives like our self esteem and our relationships. Besides the obvious strains that money can put on relationships there are other indircet affects that factor into the overall outcome of a failing economy. Such as personal well being. If any given person is under stress about bills their overall well being will suffer because of the strain of finances.

If their well being is suffering this could include their level of happiness, their security in their future, their self- worth, and their ability to cope with other daily problems and issues. This could result in depression, missplaced anger and frustration which could both create problems with how they deal with their friends and family ESPECIALLY their spouses. This could result in increased bickering with those closest to us which will ironically only increase stress as it weakens some of our most important relationships. This type of a problem can snowball into a failed relationship, divorce, conflict at work depression, and all sorts of other problems that will only increase our levels of stress. Monetary burden should be taken seriously as it is vital to the rest of our existence. This is not to say that money is the only important thing but it should definitely be spent in moderation, after all most of the average American's debt is accumulated as a result of luxury purchases.
Remeber that the economic state that we are in is responsible for a lot that we are dealing with, so the next time you are feeling a little snappy and aggravated take a moment to reflect and make sure that you are reacting appropriately to the situation and not actually on edge about your finances.

So until next time; before you react harshly take a moment to think things through when dealing those closest to you in this difficult times.

Talk to you soon!!!

Pink's New Album

Pink is both a phenominal woman and great artist. Pink is a great role model for women and girls everywhere. Her new album is promising and long awaited. I like the vibe of her songs. Pink is awesome!!! Go PINK!!

About a coffe shop

-------------------------------- 4:34 pm
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leiominala: Yayyyy im in a coffee shop! Coffee shops are amazing!
leiominala: I feel sooo successful bc I payed so much for my coffee
leiominala: I feel like my life is great and everybody in here is my
friend
leiominala: And the music is awesome *bops head* ^_^
leiominala: Gets more into the song *bops head and snaps fingers*
leiominala: I feel like bringing my laptop here next time I come so I
can write and so everyone can see that im working on a book
leiominala: Everyone else in here seems rele ambitous too lmfaooo
leiominala: I bet they r working on books too whoo and I took somebodys
picture
leiominala: ^_^ I feel like I just moved up in society by buying a hot
cocoa
leiominala: Lmaoo

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Call Center Take Home

Hello there all! *waves*
With the elections near political fever has swept the country. I am
very excited about the upcoming elections and I would encourage everyone
who is eligible to vote. Along with the excitement about the elections
come job openings for campaigns and political polling. A combination of
political passion and my liking to talk brought me to work at a
political call center.

During my stay at the call center I have noticed a few things:

1. Most McCain supporters that I have encountered are extremely
uneducated and dare I say out of touch with real issues.
2. There are usually three types of people that respond to political
surveys.
Type A. Hang up immediately when they realize its a survey
Type B. Those who pretend like they don't want to participate in the
survey but urge you to continue questioning them.
Type C. Those who are sooo friendly and excited about the topic at
hand that they actually end up surveying YOU!
3. I personally cannot stand when people say that they don't care about
politics. I bet if the wrong person got into office and passed laws
that required strange objects to be stuck up their butts they would care
about politics!!! >:o
4. People say outrageous things...>_> well I know people always say
outrageous things but especially over the phone!

For example: ABSURDITY ENCOUNTERED AT A CALL CENTER

* "of course I support affirmative action after all that's how Obama got
his education" - woman from ohio

* answering machine of old man: "Boop"
Old man with raspy voice on answering machine: "You know what to do!"
Lol!!!

* -grumpy man from Indiana: "is this call pertaining to political
bullsh*t?"
-leiominala: "indeed it is *smiles and bats eyelashes cheerfully*
-grumpy old man from Indiana: *grumbles and hangs up*

*leiominala: Hello I am calling Opinions R Us and I would like to know if I could ask you a few questions?
-Rude lady from upstate New York: "Hell Nawww U aint got nothing better tah do BITCH!"
-Leiominala: *dies lauging and says " thank you and have a great day :)"
*smh*

Well that's all for now until next time VOTE!

Talk to you soon!!

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Model + Star + Dancer + Take his Picture!!!

SOO stylish so sick so fresh!!! This young man is on his way to DA TOP *ring master's voice* Who could deny the artistic vibe from this pose? The elegance in the ensemble? The hair is soo original!

Stay up Stay live! and until next time wonder who he is!

Talk to you soon!!!

DECLINED!!!!! Please Put Your Hand Down You Are NOT Ballin!

So yesterday I was in an un-named Sandwich shop whose name is based on
the New York City Transit system... and there was a gentlemen in front
of me who was paying for his food. So everything is going normally
until the cashier suddenly goes "its no working" so the gentlemen says
"excuse me?" and the cashier goes "your card is no is working, it says
decline." So then the gentlemen goes oh *looks terribly
surprised+embarrassed+paniced* and he says "uhm the card must be
failing because I know I have a lot of money in the bank, I am gonna
have to check on that, maybe its because I spent too much money
today...how much was it again *scrambles nervously to find cash and
almost doesn't find enough" I was pretending not to notice but I was
thinking >_> WAMP!!!! First of all rarely do cards "fail" and say
declined! Second of all how much money did u spend today again cuz its
only 11 am so most stores just opened an hour ago, which means you would
have had to wait outside the store to enter and shop as soon as it
opened, shopped, traveled back home to drop off your bags *cuz he had no
shopping bags* and then miraculously made it here to try to buy a
sandwich at 11am >_> yea that...that probably did not happen. Third of
all if one was accustomed to having soooo much money and spending sooo
much money in one day there would be no reason to have a spending limit
on your account which would shoot down Gentleman's excuse number two
about having spent tooo much money today. ROFL

Always be true to yourself.

Talk To You Soon!!!
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My Favorite TV Character

Alf is awesome. What else can you say. This show was way before its
time, hilarious, and is still funny today. Alf was and is an amazing
character and TV show.
Talk To You Soon!!!
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Paparazzi Down Kanye Up!

Congrats to Mr. West for standing up for himself. It's about time that
stalkers with video equipment got the treatment they deserved.
Hollywood needs more examples like the one Kanye set.

Talk To You Soon!

College is a Funny Thing

Yea ... College is an extremely funny thing. Its weird in the way it
is so expensive and time consuming to get into. When you are in high
school everyone is running around trying to figure out where they are
gonna go, and how to write their application essay, and SATs. The whole
going off to college is a stressful hurricane of paperwork and little
things to do.

Once you arrive as a freshmen in the place *hopefully* that you decided
on, things calm down and for most people you realize that college is
basically high school part two. There is soo much emphasis placed on
doing well in college especially freshmen year *in order to avoid
failing out and being shipped home a loser* but once you get the hang of
it college is pretty simple.

If you make your attendance regular and don't do outrageous things like
talk on the phone during class you can glide through while avoiding
major academic problems.

College is funny in how it looms over junior and senior year of high
school and then once you get there it is actually really awesome.

Good luck to all those College goers out there!

Talk to you soon!!!

Another Fake Spotted and Put On Blast!

So, recently I was contacted via the leiominala hotline A.K.A leiominala@yahoo.com by a reader who was replying to my last weeks Step Into My Office Friday. This person had had a slightly different but equally fake experience with a "good" friend of his. So the story goes these two a guy and a girl are like best friends. They attend a high school in Jersey. Over the summer break the guy named Matthew stays in New York ta da City with family. The girl named Reese resides in New Jersey. Resse and some of her friends decided to come to the city to hang out. Since Reese's best friend Matthew stays in the city every summer they agreed to meet up when she arrived at Penn Station. Resse was supposed to call Jesse when she was leaving Jersey at 6pm so that Matthew would have time to travel and greet her when she arrived. So 6pm comes and Jesse receives no call from Reese. Matthew assumes she is just running a little late. So Jesse decides not to sweat it takes a nap, and when he wakes up it is the wee hours in the morning and realizes he got played. Mind you he and Reese spoke earlier that day and they confirmed that they were gonna meet up. So the next day Matthew receives a call froma mutual friend that he and Reese share and this gurl is blasting him out about why he fronted yesterday when he and Reese were supposed to hang out. This girl heard from FAKE Reese that Resse called Matthew twice and that his phone was shut off. F.Y.I Matthew has a sidekick...I have never heard of someone who owns a sidekick and shuts it off on a Friday evening when they are expecting a call.

Anyways Resse was definitely fronting because Matthew had received no calls from her. Not only did Resse fake on Matthew she tried to play his life and tell the crew she was with that she called him twice and his phone was shut off as if he did not pay his bill. Matthew had no idea why she lied like that but it was out of character for Reese and after all she was his best friend so he quickly forgave her and they rescheduled to hang out again. The second Friday night comes up and Resse is expected in the city again. Matthew waited by his ohone and received no calls. Wamp Wizamp Wamp it turns out that Resse faked again. She never called. Why would Resse reschedule just to fake out a second time?? Why is it that every time Resse comes to the city she makes plans with her so called best friend and then back out???? And why the vicious lies??? The world may never know... will they Reese - unless you decide to step into my office to explain your fake ass!!!

Talk To You Soon!!!!

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Real On the Skinny

America is well known as one of the fattest nations. Many people in America struggle with their weight. America is also well known for their beauty concious residents. Recently I have been hearing a lot of buzz terms being associated with losing weight. Some of these terms include "getting in shape, feeling great, and *my favorite* being healthy". It is no secret that generally thin is regarded as more attractive than fat or "bigger". Especially, as far as pop culture is concerned, many people are going to extreme lengths to lose weight and to have a particular body shape.

Many people like to support or reinforce their efforts and cosmetic pursuits with reasoning such as they want to lose weight because their current weight is not healthy or that they will live a better life as a skinnier person because people are not meant to be over weight. Some would even go to the length of saying that they are abusing their bodies by being overweight. While some of this may be true to a certain extent I persoally believe that 98% of most peoples reason for losing weight has to do with personal preference, and a goal to look a certain way.

I hear so many people saying that they want to lose weight because it is healthier. I also hear many more people condemnming others who are overweight.. and when these people are asked why they do not approve of someone elses body size they most common response is that "it's not even so much how they look .. it's that its not healthy" >_> Now not that I am saying people generally do not care about others I am just saying that I believe that in most of these cases the person being critical of another's weight has a bias towards overweight people that is rooted in how people look and not at all in how healthy they are.

Since when do people in high school care about how healthy they are??? psssh if people really cared about how healthy they were they would not be eating so much meat, and high school students would spend their money on organic food and natural clothes not the latest flyest fads.

Bottom line is that in most cases people are losing weight to fulfill cosmetic desires and not to be more healthy. Also in most cases people are judged for being overweight because of beauty standards not because of how unhealthy others see them. Pssh if that were the case models and party people would be abhorred everywhere.

If people want to lose weight in order to look better then they should just be real about it and stop fronting as if they are health fanatics all of a sudden. For those that pass judgment and say mean things about people who are overweight.... they need to work on their inner beauty!!

Talk to you soon!!!

BET = Super Wacktastic???

Uhmm so whatever happened to BET eh? BET has been super slackin on their game. They are always featuring played out movies, shows etc. The only good shows that they have are College Hill and Baldwin Hills, everything else is music videos and syndicated shows that have been played out since the late 90's. 106 and Park used to be tolerable but it is obviously catering towards a younger crowd = Preteens, and the general flow of the show = hosting, comments etc. is very immature. It just doesn't hold many peoples attention anymore. BET needs to step it up because right now it is definitely WACKTASTIC!!!! What was BET thinking HELOOO music videos cannot carry the rep. of an entire network!! MTV and VH1 are mega successful they have a variety of reality shows and real news about current issues. MTV and VH1 are in touch with what people want to see, they make sure that they stay ahead of the curve with fads and what "in". BET sorta seems like they gave up and they are not willing to put effort into creating new interesting ideas. BET would rather run syndicated shows Rather than to actually come up with something new and fresh and fly. BET needs some spice quick fast!! They should probably hire a think tank to come up with some new show ideas to bring back their veiwers that have strayed as a result of boredom.

PSSHH The only the time that people actually watch BET is when the awards are on. lmao

BET I AM GOING TO NEED YOU TO REGULATE THAT!!!

Talk to you soon!!!

Friend or Fake? (You Decide)

Yea, so I have this so called friend who for the purpose of this entry we will refer to as Megan. So Megan and I are good friends. We have known each other for about five years now. I would even say that we are more than good friends, our family's know each other and Megan actually has annoying cousin status rather than a family friend. So we are close enough. We have graduated from high school and since kept in contact. We are definitely getting old and the time has come for us both to graduate from college. Megan was scheduled to graduate in the Spring of 2008, and accordingly in the Winter of 2008 Megan approached me and asked if I would attend her graduation. I was soo gased to be invited to my friend's graduation. I was very very happy and gladly accepted the offer.

A college graduation is a pretty big deal, especially considering that Megan has a large family and tickets would probably be limited if not scarce. So I was honored to be counted into her limited amount of tickets. So after accepting the invite I immediatley asked if it would be okay with the limited space and all, Megan asured it would be fine. So all is well and 5 months pass and now here we are in May. Megan contacts me approximately 2 weeks before the graduation and now its time to start making some concrete plans. So she askes if I am still coming to the Graduation I am still excited and planning on coming, I asked very quickly about the location on campus and if there were still tickts and everything- Megan again assures everything will be A okay and that all signs are GO. Megan did not give me the information about the location exact time etc. but hey whats the rush we still have two weeks untik the event we will get everything straightened out in due time ... Right? <_< Well thats what I thought. Time goes by and now its a few days about four days before the graduation and Megan contacts me again to check in to make sure I am still coming. Again I am excited and now in the process of shopping for her graduation gift, all thats left is to write down the location and the time and figure out my route of transportation etc.

Keep in mind its only three days now before the Graduation and Megan has not givin me the location of the Graduation nor have we made plans about how we will meet up so that I can get the tickets from her. So another day passes and I start to worry because I don't want to make plans at the last minute to travel, being that we live about five states away from each other. So I stalked Megan (yea I admit it, so what?) via text messages and like 5 - maybe 6 phone calls including about 3 voice mails asking her specifically where the graduation would be and what time. Megan responds (via text messages) with How are you? How is everything? How is world hunger, what about Obama?..BASICALLY EVERYTHING EXCEPT FOR THE INFORMATION I NEED TO ATTEND THIS GRADUATION. I asked her specifically what building on campus is the ceremony going to be because I can mapquest the university address. Megan responds that she will tell me later because she is not near a computer and that she will give me the directions.

Needless to say that never happened, the night before like either a fool or a really really loyale friend I called her about 5 more times concerning her graduation tomorrow up until 8pm when I regained my dignity and just gave up on the situation. I left a voice message telling her that I cannot come tomorrow because she never gave me the information that I needed to get there, like literally I am all for waking up at like 4 am to travel across five states but I dont even have the address to where I am going.

Megan responds to my voicemail at 12:30am that night ..technically the morning of the graduation- with the information that I needed like four days ago, and about 5 minutes worth of apologizing for her getting back to me so late. I totally deleted that voicemail after I listened to it, rolled my eyes, and went to bed sour. About two weeks later my favorite person Megan <_< contacted me via im and asked how are you?

I rolled my eyes and decided not to be evil and responded nicely to her im. Megan continued to apologize profusley and had 4000 reasons why she played me out. I took it all in stride and was trying to move on. I told her it was fine don't worry about it whatever..

Two months later I receive another IM from Megan and we begin talking and then as if we never disscussed this before she brings up the graduation drama again. See I thought we were done with that but I guess I was wrong. Maybe her guilty conscience needed a little more soothing. The most outrageous parts of the convo was: (note my edits in bold CAPS)Conversation between "leiominala" and "Megan"
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[Tue Jul 29 2008 04:05:20 PM] Megan: hey
[Tue Jul 29 2008 04:05:26 PM] Megan: what is up?
[Tue Jul 29 2008 04:06:14 PM] leiominala: nothing what r u up to?
[Tue Jul 29 2008 04:06:19 PM] Megan: nothing much
[Tue Jul 29 2008 04:06:20 PM] leiominala: how is ur summer going??
[Tue Jul 29 2008 04:06:25 PM] megan: very good
[Tue Jul 29 2008 04:20:45 PM] Megan: so yeah i wanted to make sure everything was ok between us bc i thought maybe u were mad at me bc of graduation and all
[Tue Jul 29 2008 04:21:19 PM] Megan: but i couldn't get online for directions and was all over so that was what was difficult.
[Tue Jul 29 2008 04:21:29 PM] leiominala: its cool
[Tue Jul 29 2008 04:21:34 PM] leiominala: no prob i kno u were busy
[Tue Jul 29 2008 04:21:43 PM] Megan: so we are ok - WE ALREDY HAD DICUSSED THIS!! >:0
[Tue Jul 29 2008 04:23:35 PM] megan: yeah all i was wondering was was that did u guys have access to the internet that night?
[Tue Jul 29 2008 04:24:18 PM] megan: because UD is such a big campus that there was prolly universal directions to get to the campus
[Tue Jul 29 2008 04:25:20 PM] leiominala: oh yea no i knew how to getto the campus i just need like the building and stuff
[Tue Jul 29 2008 04:25:25 PM] leiominala: but yea its fine no worries
[Tue Jul 29 2008 04:25:41 PM] megan: i thought i told u where it was and stuff
[Tue Jul 29 2008 04:25:49 PM] megan: and where
[Tue Jul 29 2008 04:25:57 PM] megan: i mean which building
[Tue Jul 29 2008 04:26:04 PM] megan: i told u the football stadium
[Tue Jul 29 2008 04:26:17 PM] megan: right when u got off 896 and 297
[Tue Jul 29 2008 04:26:49 PM] leiominala: yea i think it was kinda later on though
[Tue Jul 29 2008 04:27:16 PM] megan: i thought it was like the day before
[Tue Jul 29 2008 04:27:22 PM] megan: well itdoesn;t matter it is over
[Tue Jul 29 2008 04:27:33 PM] leiominala: i rele cant remember yea its cool
[Tue Jul 29 2008 04:27:59 PM] megan: i just thought that maybe the reason why u didn't come was because u and ur boyfriend didn't really want to be t here -WTFF??!?!?!?!?!?!?!!?!??!!?!?!?!?! SHE CANNOT BE SERIOUSLY AFTER I CALLED HER 4 MILLION TIMES!!!!![Tue Jul 29 2008 04:28:23 PM] megan: but well idk it is over with so anyways
[Tue Jul 29 2008 04:29:09 PM] leiominala: no we both were looking forward to coming but we didnt have the address - ME TRYING TO REMAIN CALM - ITS WASNT WORKING[Tue Jul 29 2008 04:29:16 PM] leiominala: and the tickets and the info and stuff
[Tue Jul 29 2008 04:29:24 PM] megan: but there wasn't any adress
[Tue Jul 29 2008 04:29:35 PM] megan: i couldn't find an adress
[Tue Jul 29 2008 04:29:43 PM] leiominala: oh - TOTALLY NOT APPRECIATING HOW SHE IS TRYING TO TURN THIS WHOLE THING AROUND ON ME LIKE I WAS WRONG >:0[Tue Jul 29 2008 04:29:49 PM] megan: i explained what the name of the building was
[Tue Jul 29 2008 04:30:02 PM] megan: and where it would be when u got off the turnpike or I-95


YEA YOU GUESSED IT it wasnt long before I asked Mrs. Megan to STEP IN TO MY OFFICE!

This converstaion continued via telephone confrontation because I could no longer keep my cool in the office via IM. I had to tell Mrs. Megan that she was frontin the whole time and that all she had to do was say that she didnt have enough tickets for me to come. She did not have to play my life and dodge my phonce calls and create imaginative tales about why she could not return my phone calls etc. This was total crap!!! and I was shocked to have this problem with someone that I considered such a close friend. Mrs. Megan insisits that she gave me all of the information a few days before the graduation which is total lies, and it does not even agree with the evidence.
Exhibit A: her calling me and leaving me that voicemail at 12:30AM JUST LITERALLY HOURS BEFORE THE GRADUATION!!! the voicemail was full of apologies and excuses
Exhibit B: her iming me and continueing to apologize and finally
Exhibit C: In the beginning of this convo she opened up as the guilty party,!!!! why is she still talking about the graduation?!?!?!?!?!!?!?!? Its two months in the past and we have definietly spoken since then and she has apologized a million times already and I have politely accepted these apologies and was ready to forgive and move on... we were even making plans to go see a play on Broadway WTF!!!!

This was toat tally WACK WIGGIDY WIZZACK!!! ON Megans part! For all those out there please don't be like Megan. If you make plans with someone and for whatever reason you cannot keep the plans PLEASE be honest and cancel don't dodge the person and fabricate soap opera plots for why you could not reach them or vice versa. It just looks really WAMP on your part, you lose 5000 cool points and u just may end up STEPPING INTO MY OFFICE!! It would have been so simple if Megan just told me that she didnt have enough tickets for me to come instead of fronting. So until next time schedule carefully and if something comes up just communicate don't be WACK like Megan.

Talk to you soon!!!

The Little Girls Room

Lmaoo so I was in the little girls room at Macy's in Metropolis and when
I came in none of the stall were empty. One in particular had a small
child and an adult in the family/ handicapped stall. The liitle kid
was standing and making vrroooming noises to pass the time by. The kid
goes look at my telebubbies...pause

I go into my stall and like two minutes later the kid cheerfully says
"it smells like poop"

I came out of my stall and was washing my hands when the kid goes "are
you done yet" *talking to the mother who was sitting on the toilet*

- was trying to fight back laughter and dry my hands when I hearing the
mother get up and then the kid *both in a amazement and disgust
says*..."ewww soo much poop...repeats"

I was like O_O. Lmfaooo
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HIYA!!:)....I Just Wanted To Say

HAVE A GRRRRREAT DAY!!! :) -YT Leiominala

Natural vs. Letting Yourself Go

Hellooooo,
Welcome to keep it real Wednesday!! :) *applause* lolz
As always but especially on Wednesdays >_> I would like to keep it real. Today I am gonna have to talk about being natural as opposed to letting oneself go. Apparently there is a bit of confusion. Being more natural should mean cutting back on products with chemicals and processed foods. You know like maybe using a lotion that has shea butter as opposed to a chemical potion loaded with stuff that you can barely pronounce. Or perhaps not eating microwaved food and buying organic groceries. Many people who choose to live a more simple, natural and healthy lifestyle even avoid certain clothing. For example: clothing that most people buy is full of harsh chemical dyes and pesticides, so some people prefer to buy organic clothes or hand made and "natural dye" pieces. For some being natural and intune with oneself may even mean wearing a certain hairstyle oh I dunnooo *kicks a pebble with toe* maybe a style like Locks A.K.A Dred Locks.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with any of the things listed above. All of the things listed above are NATURAL and perfectly okay. However there is a problem with the things listed below:
1. Unkempt Locks A.K.A Dreds (or anyother hairstyle)
2. Not wearing a deodorant (NO ONE SHOULD HAVE TO SMELL YOU!) >:0
3. Homely raggedy insufficient clothes
4. Substituting chemical heavy soaps with no soap at all!!!!!
5. Believing that part of being natural includes not bathing regularly!!!
6. Unkempt feet..this is NOT Natural! it is irresponsible and a reflection of poor hygiene
7. Thinking that NATURAL = Poor Hygiene...it doesn't!!!


These things listed directly above are unacceptable if anyone out there is just plain not grooming themselves and calling it being natural they r DURTY!!! and they need to go to jail!!! Number one is the main problem that inspired me to talk about this. Anyone who is choosing to wear locks should be especially meticulous about their personal upkeep. Anyone who didn't choose to wear locks and are wearing them: You are DURTY and you need to go to jail!

But back to the people with locks. People with locks have been discriminated against for so long, and many people do not like that hairstyle because they specifically think that it is indicative of poor hygiene. Of course this is not necessarily true. There are people that keep their locks so beautiful=always re twisted, always fresh, always moisturized, always looking healthy and nice ends, No doo doo dollops, and they always smell good.

F.Y.I doo doo dollops=*lmao* from when the locks is starting to thin in the middle and needs to be trimmed, don't front! you've seem them...pssh you might have them! lol

Unfortunately, there are also people who do not maintenance their locks regularly and it shows!!! Some people (Ima have to put 99% of the DMV on BLAST!!) are walking around with locks that haven't been re twisted in months ..or more. Some are definitely not even washing their locks. *smh* Please regulate this problem.

Allow me to clarify topic number two. Even if for personal reasons you choose not to wear deodorant, you should find some kind of way to control your body odor or at least keep it to a minimum i.e. a soap that works for you etc. F.Y.I there are more natural products that can be used as a deodorant in place of traditional pharmacy bought deodorants such as: a bar deodorant from Lush= my favorite store.

As far as clothing goes being natural is no excuse for looking bummy. You can be natural and fly. If you choose to go the natural route you should understand that its gonna be more expensive. This is not a reason to stop investing in your appearance all together.

You can find natural soaps, cleansers or whatever to clean with. Regardless to what path in life you take bathing should be a required routine. Keeping your feet looking like feet is also important. Walking around with totally neglected feet that look like they died last year but you are still using them - is not wise ... it is not spiritual its gross and its poor hygiene and ultimately irresponsible you can get rele bad infections from poorly maintained feet.

Natural does not = DURTY...Natural = Healthy...Durty does not = Healthy..you see how this can't work. okay so until next time take a shower and uhh eat something organic.

Talk to you soon!

Be Wise, ..Be Careful

Every where you turn there r people in need of help. Whether its friends, family, co-workers, or strangers most people have a few people in their lives who could use help. Help can come in many forms such as: advice, money, house work, chores, running errands, or patching up damaged relationships. As an extremely kind and generous person >_> I can say that I frequently find myself turning away people in need of help. Now, we all know I am always available to give advice I am not excited about offering other forms of help. Its not because I am stingy or selfish or mean or anything else, its simply because I have learned that my first priority has to be myself, Sometimes when helping out other we loose focus and forget that we come first.

It is great to help out when I can. I am happy to help as long as it
does not inconvenience me. Helping others is awesome until its not
anymore. The trouble comes in when you try to help someone else and it ends up back firing. For example: loaning a friend money that u expected to be repaid at a set date. When for some tired reason the
money doesn't find its way back to you when it was supposed to and now
you are falling short on you own responsibilities.

Or if you allow someone to move in with you after they have been thrown
out, evicted, whatever etc. And then they become the house guest from
hell. Lolz

In the end I thoroughly think through a favor whenever my help is
solicited.

If for whatever reason the act of generosity in question is
not a good fit for me I comfortably turn it down because, however,
awkward it will be for me to turn down that person in need, I know it
will be a thousand times more awkward and frustrating to have a conflict
as a result of helping someone else.

So the next time you are about to "help" someone out just make sure its
not gonna hurt your progress!

THINK IT THROUGH!

Talk to you soon!!!
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Sent from my T-Mobile Sidekick®

Rock Your Curls!

All of us out there with the devil's curly hair (lolz) know well enough how much curly hair can be discriminated against. Most people with curly hair go through grueling ordeals to straighten and proces their tresses. This usually stems from a dislike for their natural curly hair. One may wonder just where would someone get a silly idea that curls are not attractive??? Well that is a tale for another day >_> There certainly is a general preference for straight hair.

One thing that I find interesting about people with curly hair who prefer to wear it straightened, is that most of them claim that they prefer straighter hair because it is more manageable...<_< and to this load of lies I say HOW SOOO???

How is it possible for curly hair to be easier to manage when its straightened?? On average it would take someone about 15 minutes a day to manage their natural curly hair where as those who choose to straighten their hair it may take hours, Literally hours of blow drying, flat ironing, etc. to wear their preferred style. Obviously this makes no sense since the original "story" was that they wanted their hair to be easier to manage...and what could be easier than a 15 minute routine that would leave your hair flawless for the rest of the day??? Hmmm sounds a bit strange. Yupp I personally believe that all of the excuses to why straight hair is easier is total Bovine Feces. These people who make these claims are more than likely Brain washed to believe that straight hair is more attractive and that curly hair is wild.

BTW...unprocessed hair is way healthier than fried, flat ironed, blow dried hair. People who have naturally curly hair and then process it to death usually suffer from damage that will of course result from all the industrial processing it takes to straighten curly hair.

In conclusion, the only real reason why someone with curly hair would wear their hair straight is because they want to wear it straight, so please stop with all the nonsense reasons about why straightened hair is a better option. Straightened hair is not a healthier or time saving solution. Straight hair is a preference ..plain and simple.

So for all those processed heads out there just keep it real when it comes to why you want to straighten your hair, until next time I will be rocking my Curls EXTRA HARD BODY!!

Talk to you soon!!

Blogging Mobile

Hello Gotham,
I feel as though I was just handed the keys to the city. In a way I was...I am now able to blog from my mobile device!!!

WHOooooooooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Talk to you soon!

Sidekick Exorcism? O_o

Ok so how about, my sidekick was bouncing off the walls from about midnight last night until like four in the morning. It happened like this:
I was sound asleep-with unchecked emails- all of a sudden and roaring ringtone and flashing cop/ ambulance lights strobe all across my room :O. I jumped up totally startled and ready to survive whatever was about to happen, only to find out that it was my beloved sidekick. So I checked all of my alarms settings sound profiles what have you, there were no new calls, no txts, no ims.

SO... I go back to sleep successfully and I have horrible dreams for hours about loud sirens and flashing lights and constantly being startled and chased. I finally wake up like totally up and AWAKE from the last obnoxious alert, around four am to realize that I was not dreaming and that for the past four or so hours I was being terrorized by my alert setting every ten minutes!!! O_O I was done! I could not fall back asleep and of course I had work in the morning. I called in a favor from one of my trusted Night Owl- sidekick experts. After some trouble shooting they advised me that I was indeed dealing with a possessed sidekick and I would have to contact asurion.

In the end my beauty sleep was irreparably ruined and I went to work looking like an old man. I am not happy that I may have to send back my friend, my buddy, my SK Skeezy! *pictures of me and my sidekick running in the park, holding hands -YES my lx does have arms and legs in this manufactured memory*

BUT OH WELL I CAN'T BE GOING TO WORK LOOKING LIKE HERBERT FROM FAMILY GUY!! *Kicks LX to curb for new one* Mwahahaahh *evil Laugh* *sighs*

Talk to you soon!!!

Super Phone!!

Are there any super phones out there?? I am talking about a phone that has a web browser, capable of video streaming, has a ten mega pixel camera-with all the same features you would get from a regular ten mega pixel digital camera, video recording with awesome sound, 16 G memory space and a built in mp3 feature, great speaker quality that would rival bose docking stations, Mobile dish tv(F.Y.I Verizon Wireless already has mobile tv with channels such as MTV), and windows vista application.

Yea thats what I'm talking about! When will we see a phone that is capable of all of the wonders above that also come with an attractive shell? A durable rubbery shell that acutually bounces back up if you drop it?? and water proof! This phone would definitely have to be waterproof!!

Does anyone else want a phone like the one I described?? Who do you think will put out the first "Super Phone", will it be T-Mobile?

Is there a super phone out there that can save us from these awesome -yet not exactly what I would expect from the year 2008 -Phones?????

If there are any let me know!!

Talk to you soon!!!

Ebb and Flow of Life

Someone great once said that it is during the hard times that you see someones true character.

I think this quote is VERY true. Stress can really make people show their true colors like nothing else can. There is just something about stress and difficult situatons that make people shed pretention like a snake sheds old skin. Stressful situations are always painful situations, but it is times like these when you find out who your real friends are, and who you can depend on. The trouble is... making sure that you are behaving like a note worthy person while enduring these difficult times. Of course we ALL try to avoid setting the stage for drama >_> but we all know from experience that drama has a way of finding us.

When drama strikes it is very difficult to remain that easy going, level headed, perky person, especially when life deals you tidal wave after tidal wave of BOLD SUBSTITUTION!!!! >:O. *TAKES DEEP BREATH*

^_^ However, it is always good to keep in mind even during the most trying moments that - this will all eventually settle, and you will probably have to deal with at least some of the same people who are involved in the drama after the storm has calmed. So you might as well behave, sit tight and come out of the difficult time with grace instead of acting they way we all want to act= TWO YEAR OLD!!- when the trials of life come knocking at our door.

We all go through trying times with extremely difficult people, the trick is not becoming a part of the problem and morphing into one of those difficult people.

WHAT TO DO WHEN DRAMA STRIKES:
1. Try ... at least try to stay calm, Remember this will eventually settle and you would like to overcome the issue with grace.
2. Problems are the spice of life without them the world would be boring >_>
3. When all else fails, do what your favorite Superhero would do!!

IN THE MEANTIME, HERA GIVE ME STRENGTH!

Talk to you soon!!

Introducing "Step Into My Office FRIDAYS"

Karibu!

I am introducing Step Into My Office Fridays where I will politely >_> and eloquently<_< put people on BLAST for their transgressions.

So Tune in every day and especially on Friday to see who had to Step Into My Office

Talk to you soon!!!

Chupacabras

Have you ever had someone close to you or maybe even someone that you just had to deal with that drains you? You know the type of person, that is constantly miserable and will not quit until they at least bring down your mood a couple of notches. Yea, well I call those kinds of people Chupacabras. Chupacabras are a type of emotional vampire. A Chupacabra is the type of person who constantly meddles in the affairs of others. They are particularly drawn to happy upbeat people. I suspect that they prefer to prey on happier people because the happier the person the more energy they can steal from them. A chupacabra may seem normal at first and then they will gradually give theselves away, usually with negative comments that will increase in boldness and frequency overtime. Chupacabras tend to try very hard to initially win affection usually with gifts and uncommon thoughfulness. A Chupacabra will diligently build a friendship, and normally display common attractive charcteristics such as a sense of humor, strong ethics, very agreeable, steady and reasonable character.--- BUT THEN!!! the complaints will start. The complaints will begin few and far in between about minor annoyances, and will go unoticed at first. The frequency at which a Chupacabra complains will increase. Chupacabras will try to erode the self esteem of their new victim/friend if allowed. Chupacabras usually are given to vice such as SMOKING, GOSSIP, and EXCESSIVE SHOPPING.

Chupacabras are shape shifters and will only look like the picture above in their true form. Chupacabras will almost always look normal, you can only tell if someone is a Chupacabra in disguise from their character. Chupacabras are usually early risers and tend to be hard workers. Again they display desirable characteristics iniatially, its only until you get to know them that they expose who they really are. Chupacabras will intentionally irritate and emotionally harrass their victim with back handed compliments and sideways put downs. Chupacabras are PRONE TO NEGATIVE COMMENTS. Chupacabras rob the victim of their life energy while the victim is feeling emotional stress, this is how the Chupacabras feeds. Chupacabras appear to be optimistic but when feeding expose a deep set pesimistic minset. I would advise anyone who has discovered that they are dealing with a Chupacabra to limit exposure to the Chupacabra immediately!! Chupacabras are extremely dangerous. Future relationships or dealings with Chupacabras should be avoided at all costs.

If you or someone you know would like to share their experience/ encounter with a Chupacabra please contact the Chupacabra Hotline at leiominala@yahoo.com

Talk to you soon!!

Integrity

Integrity is a very important part of every day life. In fact life as we know would not exist if it were not for integrity. I have noticed that slowly people are losing value for integrity. Everyday people seem to become just a little bit more corrupt than they were the day before. Technology has also become a tool of the immoral A.K.A (indentity theft, and internet scams). Currently it is not a surprise to come across in real life or to hear about someone via the grape vine or the news who has commited some deplorable act. The things we hear about on the news and consider abhorrent are only the next logical step for many immoral and rude acts that most would consider not a big deal. For example; two people fighting in public subsequently getting arrested. This example is only the next logical step to the many small spats and arguments that we all *especially in the NYC* witness everyday.

These tiny back and forths usually start over someone bumping into someone and not saying excuse me, stepping on someones foot without excusing themselves, and even more commonly over minor traffic disputes. Really, it should be considered outrageous for two adults to argue in public period the end. These unfortunate exchanges -if ever- should only take place one in a blue moon not a hundred times a day.

So much goes on "today" that 50 years ago would have been considered TOAT TALLY INSANE. Contemporary daily interaction, ie *arguing in public, yelling, being rude, violence* that just 50 years ago people would have looked at you like you were wearing doo-doo for lotion, now passes for weekday/broad daylight casual behavior. Our society is becoming grossly desensitized to violence and beligerence. This desensitization lends to the erosion of our integrity as humans. I know this sounds very morose BUT there is a bright side. These minor infractions can be easily corrected if we all check our manners on a daily basis. It takes two to argue, so even if one person is being egregiously unreasonable there should be the adult on the other end to balance things out. And if that is too hard the we could improve our collective integrity just by making sure that we are not being that egregiously unreasonable person. BINGO! PROBLEM SOLVED! :)

If this was a bit of a hefty upshot to grasp then take a look at the quick check list below.

WHEN YOU ARE IN AN EXTREMELY ANNOYING SITUATION;
1. THINK ABOUT WHAT YOUR GRANDMOTHER WOULD DO.
2. IF YOUR GRANDMOTHER IS NOT THE BEST ROLE MODEL, THEN THINK; WWJD, AND DO THAT.
3. IF YOU ARE NOT RELIGOUS, AND YOUR GRANDMOTHER HAD A TEMPER THEN CONSIDER WHAT OPTIMUS PRIME WOULD DO, AND DO THAT.

World peace down, global economy and world hunger to go!

Talk to you soon! :)

Came Outcha' Face?

Okay, so have you ever been so angry that you totally came out of character?
Haven't we all??? Oh, yes we have. After the dust has settled isn't it the most embarrassing thing ever? Many times I am able to look back and laugh because I cannot believe that I was soo angry and other times I am not really able to laugh becuase, jee it really wasn't funny at all, just plain embarrassing. Wouldn't life be so much easier if we could always stay composed , cool amd calm? BUT THATS NOT LIFE! And when life is getting the best of you and you feel like you are about to put on a show maybe it would be best to just leave the situation if possible, and if it is not physically possible for to leave the situation then chill out mentally and count to ten. I know the next time life is about to make me vogue I am gonna step back from the situation if not physically then mentally and I am going to count to ten and think of three things;
1. Where I want to be
2. Where I am going to be
3. How it isn't worth it to vogue right now, cuz I have worked too hard at my character to put on an embarrassing show and have to live with it later.

NEVER LET THEM SEE YOU SWEAT! LOLZ

Talk to you soon!

Beauty of Poverty

Yes, although poverty is not usually described as beautiful, I can assure you that it is sometimes beautiful. Poverty is a strange phenomena that binds people from different unfortunate circumstances into a similar unfortunate economic reality. Poverty is most beautiful when it motivates someone to change their economic situation. For example; a person who was born into poverty but decided that they would no longer live a second best lifestyle, and thus they find a way to develope themselves as a person, and to also upgrade their quality of life. The best success stories are most often the ones that start out with a desperately poor person. It is always refreshing to see the underdog succeed. It is even more fulfilling to be the successful underdog. Stories about people who were born with nothing and have extraordinary characters and somehow find a way to make money and have a happy ending will never get old.
Poverty for some is alomost like the hot water that turns beans into great coffee. Or the pressure that would turn a lump of coal into a diamond. Poverty can be an honorable test of strength for those who overcome it. For those that succumb to it ...well that is a sad story for another day. My advice would be to overcome it.
Talk to you soon!

Wolves and Sheep

...so btw its hilarious when the light is about to change to the walk signal and the "Wolves" A.K.A the "intelligent", "go getter", "think for themselves" kinda people start walking before the walk sign tells them to and all the sheep just wait until the signal allows them to walk....gosh I want to be one of the wolves.

*THINK FOR YOURSELF* *THINK FOR YOURSELF AND OBEY THE RULES AT THE SAME TIME*

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Bad Attitudes = Not a Good Look

I have noticed through the course of living everyday life that people who appear to have a bad atttude are received as a bit wiser. It seems as though these people with bad attitudes also see themselves as smarter than others -(like myself)- who generally have an upbeat and perky attitude. This is a truly sad and huge misjudgment. The person who is upbeat and bouncing off the walls is not always happy becuase they are total idiots and oblivious to lifes ebb and flow of misfortune. These people who are always happy and cheery are totally -well at least most of them- aware of the nonsense that comes along with everyday life. Infact the people with the super smiley attitudes have already accepted the fact that everything doesn't go the way you want it to and bottom line STUFF HAPPENS. In reality the people who are perceived as air headed becuase they are always happy are the smart ones, and the bad attitude having people around you need to grow up. Having a bad attitude is not a sign that you see the world for what it is, however, it is a sign that you are not emotionally mature and that you get caught up in the petty details of life rather than seeing the bigger picture. I am not saying that you cannot occasionally get into a funk, but this is directed specifically towards a certain type of personality, (you know the kind with the permanent grumpies). So for all those people with stinky 'tudes you should do yourself a favor and cheer up, because its not making you any better eqipped to deal with the (BOLD SUBSTITUTION)that we all deal with everday. In fact attitudes make grumpy people look kinda childish and dumb, and in the end you are only making everybody else feel happy about their lives and the fact that they aren't you lol.
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